I and the married woman

Reason of dispute: Since unexperience I could not understand to a married woman, there was my own living style, so I treated her like a new girl, this was good to treat her like a new girl, but it was also important to understand the thinking of a married woman, I never gave important to this thought, and it became my mistake, I never gave time to understand why she was leaving her husband, what was the impact on her mind, and what will happen If I fight with her, and this way she will start corelating everything to her past life, so she did it, but it was not her mistake, but this was her mind who had this experience and did behaving that way, I never wanted to fight her I had to because of the behaviour and as per situation, but she was behaving that bay because she was married and afraid, she also did not want fight with me but her mind was not let her go to free,  I was able to make her understand several times because somwhere she also had the same concent, but when she completly changed I could not make he easy, why she could not stay with me because she thought if she married me and started stay with me, later I will behave like her husband in that situation what she will do, she said this same to me, she will not marry because I will stop loving that way,  but the same would continue one day she woul stay with me, 

It was impact of bad past experience,

Imapct of working in BT

Imapct of sunita stories,

Imapct of my own fight,

So I could save her from her past life but I could not save her compelety, after 2 years knowing her I could marry her and let her free from any bpo job, this way I could have saved her.

In 2018 when I got a suspense that she is talking to my home to Sunita, that time you should allow pushpal and her wife to talk to Nitti to make every information equal, because Nitti was getting one side information so if she started getting one side formation what is the problem to get two side or the other side information that was the only way to make it equal, may be current problem would no arised.

Massage: Nitti I am still waiting for you, You have never told me about your problem and money,  My life was not easy from my childhood , I saw very hard time in term of my father behaviour to me, then I got married, my wife and my father they both had same mind, I found myself alone, I came in delhi in 2007, and stay alone, I never had any experience of marriage life, so I did nòt know how to understand a married woman, that why ..whaterever happened was repeating situation for you, but not for me, I never got love in my life, when I met you,  and when you told me that you are in trouble and, may one day commit sucide, when I saw in your eyes, I saw my situation in them,  I found you a lovable woman, the way you love me, it was like I became young, and the time stopped my age. It was like a college life we lived in convergys, few thing I could not understand due to our night work, so it was required to say about those things, I never got love from my mother and father I dont known about this bheaviour, I satyed in that house alone, I always thought to go out, so when I heared about your mother I started thinking may I got that love from her, that is all reason why I valued your love in my life, even the maximum life l spend with you, It is not remain without you. I am waiting for you.

Suggestion: It is like a story of Dusyant who forgot his love, and later he remember, so you can not enforce nitti, but you can go to Jammu, and to her family, meet her family like a friend not like a lover, meet jammu like a friend, meet family like a friend, the better thing if you meet her mother.

Story begain: I met in Cinvergys in 2011, She interoduced in the same team, I saw her smile and laughing, One day while in the office outside and back side of the building at evening today she was looking some sad, so I asked what happend, she said there is problem with her, I asked how , I always seen you smiling never see you sad, she replied if I smile it doesnt mean it doent mean I dont have problem, she kepting saying and I was looking into her eyes and finding my own problem, she told everthing about her married life one by one the say I was clearly able to imagin her how she was standing alone on the road in the dress how she may wear and she standing even what was she may feeling in that situation.